Half Of Teens Think They're Addicted To Their Smartphones (cnn.com) 103
An anonymous reader writes: A new poll confirms just how much teens depend on their phones. Fifty percent of teens feel they are addicted to their mobile devices, according to the poll, which was conducted for Common Sense Media, a nonprofit focused on helping children, parents, teachers and policymakers negotiate media and technology. A larger number of parents, 59%, said their teens were addicted. The poll involved 1,240 interviews with parents and their children, ages 12 to 18. "Technological addiction can happen to anyone," said digital detox expert Holland Haiis. "If your teens would prefer gaming indoors, alone, as opposed to going out to the movies, meeting friends for burgers or any of the other ways that teens build camaraderie, you may have a problem."
The left half .... (Score:1)
or the right half?
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The half that downloaded that new "Phone Addiction" app on the first day it came out.
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Re:Simple question (Score:4, Interesting)
Kids need to learn that there are consequences for their actions, while those consequences are relatively minor.
As a parallel, I ended up getting a better job at work because the guy that was the lead tested several of us out, "borrowing" us for some larger jobs. One of the guys that lost-out did so because he couldn't stop texting to focus on the damn job.
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IKids need to learn that there are consequences for their actions, while those consequences are relatively minor.
They aren't going to do that if mommy and daddy micromanage their lives. Kids socialize. Get over it. My 15 year daughter spends a lot of time on her phone. That is her choice. She isn't out drinking, or using drugs, or getting pregnant, and her grades are good. So she is doing a lot better than I was at her age.
If you seriously believe that too much texting and photo sharing is an existential crisis, then please don't have kids.
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Taking someone's phone is macro-managing, wanting to know each text or conversation is micro-managing.
But both are bad parenting. By the time a kids are in high school, they are ready to start making their own choices. Parents should give guidance and step in when there is a problem.
Here is a checklist of things that are, and are not, major teenage problems:
Is a problem:
1. Drug addiction
2. Binge drinking
3. Drunk driving
4. Flunking out of school
5. Juvenile detention
6. Pregnancy
7. HIV
8. Suicide
Not a problem:
1. Sharing cat videos with her friends
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So, you're not Todd Palin then.
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I suspect I'll get downmodded to -1 so people can avoid the question and pretend like it's not here. Can anyone actually answer the question rather than evading it through moderation? I don't think Slashdot is capable of giving a good answer.
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Why don't parents just take away the phones?
I heard this story on NPR yesterday before it was posted here. A sizeable portion of the parents of these 'addicted' teenagers are also addicted to their phones.
It's stupid. It's a phone, not a lifestyle; stop making it into one. Just one more thing to add to the list of reasons I'd never want a so-called 'smartphone': being associated with these sort of people. If it wasn't for safety reasons, and if it didn't cost any less money, I'd skip having any sort of wireless phone and just go back to a landline.
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A good example of this is casual gaming, where "normal" people keep playing the same game year after year even if its the shittiest of games just because it was the FIRST game they ever tried.
Halo comes to mind.
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They're not entitled to smartphones. Why not take them away?
And then what? Okay so you've taken the phone away, it is not like they are just going to say, "Oh gee, my phone is gone, I guess I'll do things that I don't normally do." It's like people who yell, "Oh just take food stamps away and people will magically get jobs." People just don't magically change overnight and just simply taking a phone away for any short length of time isn't fixing a perceived problem. Allow them to use it for only an hour a day? That's not going to fix jack all that does is make
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I've met countless people hunting - albeit not usually for fox. Also fishing... I've been to many formal dinners and even some fancy engagements that you'd probably call a ball - as dancing and drinking, while appropriately attired, was the goal and with a live small string quartet or even a marginally larger band. If you want to count the Birthday Ball then I've actually been to quite a few balls. But no, I don't think I've ever met anyone while hunting for fox. Deer? Yes. Fox? No. I do believe I'm allowed
I sniffed my new phone. nothing. (Score:2)
so how the hell are they getting addicted?
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I suspect I'll get downmodded to -1 so people can avoid the question and pretend like it's not here.
We just don't think it's a problem, and we want them to have phones to call us or text us when shit gets too real.
Gaming indoors? (Score:5, Insightful)
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If you'd prefer to be alone than with other people you are unhealthy and wrong!
Please pay no attention to the fact that an estimated 50-75% of people are introverts... those people are just sick in the head and we can fix them by paying some one else to do it... a therapist, psychologist or digital detox expert.
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If you'd prefer to be alone than with other people
Yeah, but I kind of think that's because of other people, not because of me :)
And the other half... (Score:2)
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I grew up as a nerd (Score:2)
I thought being online all the time was weird. I was glued to my monitor. Now everyone is doing it with cell phones and saying they are addicted. I kinda miss when you had to be a nerd to get online. It wasn't a social issue back then.
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being nerd was not a social issue... when did you grow up? in the 2010's?
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The terms "nerd" and "geek" lost their true meaning about ten years ago.
Just Emulating Their Parents (Score:2, Insightful)
How am I supposed to keep my kids from getting addicted to smart phones when my wife snaps at me every time I suggest that maybe she could put her phone down during dinner.
Re: Just Emulating Their Parents (Score:2, Funny)
Get a divorce.
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Would bet that if you put a couple candles out, dimmed the lights and sat next to her she wouldn't even bring her phone out.
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if all else fails you could just socially engage other adults, that might get her attention.
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Corrected Headline (Score:1)
"People Don't Understand What The Word "Addicted" Means"
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It's not meaningless, it's just used incorrectly. Do teens go through physical withdrawal symptoms when they are forced to stay off of their mobile devices? I very much doubt it. Do they engage in risky or illegal activity to ensure they can continue using mobile phones? Does their mobile phone use severely impair their ability to function socially, academically, or otherwise? Possibly, but nowhere near the extent to which something like heroin or alcohol. Thus, one can't be addicted to a phone.
Perhaps we give them too little credit. (Score:2)
If your teens would prefer gaming indoors, alone (Well online with hundreds of people who they are interacting with)
as opposed to going out to the movies (Nothing more social going into a big dark room to sit down to watch a movie, and told be quite)
meeting friends for burgers (Nothing wholesome like connecting friendship with the injection of fatty foods. )
or any of the other ways that teens build camaraderie. (camaraderie?!? For teens they are so self absorbed that they never even listen to their friends
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Uh huh... (Score:5, Insightful)
"If your teens would prefer writing poetry, alone, as opposed to going out to the theater, meeting friends for rolls or any of the other ways that teens build camaraderie, you may have a problem." - ancient Rome ~ 0AD
If you're addicted, by all means seek treatment, but honestly, most of this is simply another round of how decadent kids are, and this has been going for many thousands of years, probably since the first ever sucessful hunt. Furthermore, most of this is pales to a real addiction - if your symptoms are that you don't like being around others, how about we talk about being addicted to books? Being addicted to movies? Being addicted to schoolwork? Hell, being addicted to being an introvert? The symptoms are all the same. Undoubtly there are people who truly suffer from this, I'm not saying there aren't, but I suspect much of this to be overblown out of proportions.
Re:Uh huh... (Score:5, Insightful)
When I was growing up, I preferred reading a book to interacting with people. I even had a "dealer" (my local library) who supplied me with a seemingly endless supply of free books to fuel my addiction. I rarely went out with friends to the movies and never went to hang out at a burger shop or the mall. (I half expected the author to cite declining "sock hop" participation." I turned out just fine (though nowadays I don't have the time to feed my book addiction as much as I'd like).
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It's possible to zealously engage in an activity to the point where it is harmful - and I don't think that I know of any activity where that can't be true.
As an aside, your librarian might have even given you those first hits for free and now that you're an adult you can look back and see all that you've spent on the industry. It *is* like drug pushers!
I shouldn't do this to you but I'm going to... See, I discovered something not too long ago. I hate to admit it but it's true and if you don't have time to f
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I know all about audio books. My wife likes using them so she can crochet and "read" at the same time. I'm more into electronic books since I can have a stack of "books" with me at all times.
Of course, I've also moved into writing my own book so hopefully one day I'm fueling someone else's book addiction.
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Put me on your notification list for when you're done, if you don't mind. And I'm expecting you're aware of them - I'm suspecting that you're not using them. :D They actually aren't as bad as I'd expected. They can be hell to pay attention to while driving in traffic. I could probably text a novel while driving and have fewer distractions than I have when listening and driving. I've reached the point where I tend to wait until I'm on the highway or away from traffic before listening. The missus doesn't much
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We did listen to the audio book copy of The Princess, The Scoundrel, And The Farm Boy (a retelling of Star Wars Episode 4 with sections from Leia's, Han's, and Luke's perspective) on a recent road trip. It was very nice. I still prefer the act of sitting down, letting the book be my entire focus, and actually reading it myself, though. I wouldn't look down on someone who's into audio books (we also used them to help one of my son's get into reading - he'd read the book along with the audio book), but the
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I, too, much prefer to sit (technically lay) down and read but time sure is sometimes lacking and I spend a lot of time in an automobile. I've found it comes in handy and allows me to keep my desire reasonably well quenched. :D
Out of touch (Score:4, Interesting)
Gaming indoors is the modern teen camaraderie:
- Invites communication & collaborative strategy
- Experiencing win/lose attitudes
Movies are the epitome of anti-social:
- sit silently in the dark, opposing all who talk, to be indoctrinated.
Driving age is over 18 in many areas, or over 19 with passengers, so how are the "teens" supposed to get to this burger place?
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But going into a restroom stall to play Solitaire on a phone (bad wireless coverage for anything else) is something one can enjoy for hours and hours, at least while being paid by the hour.
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Definitions (Score:2)
Half of teens think being "triggered" is feeling mildly uncomfortable after reading something they don't like and "depression" is not enjoying getting up early in the morning to go to school. Some definitions and a little bit of perspective might be in order.
Having a mental illness is the new black, don'tcha know. Who needs health professionals when you can self diagnose based on what you read on Tumblr?
Did we all turn into luddites and fogeys? (Score:2)
"If your teens would prefer gaming indoors, alone, as opposed to going out to the movies, meeting friends for burgers or any of the other ways that teens build camaraderie, you may have a problem."
I'm sorry but this is the same bullsh** parents used to spout when I was a child-
Don't waste your time playing video games!
Go outside and get some sun!
Why don't you go play football or something?
you'll never if you just sit there on that computer all day.
Our parents meant well. But they didn't understand that gam
Half Of Teens Think They're Addicted... (Score:2)
Half Of Teens Think They're Addicted To Their Smartphones - the other half are in denial.
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or more likely, the other half don't know what Addicted means.
Seems a bit limiting (Score:2)
Perhaps I hate paying outrageous amounts of money to sit in a dirty theater with stale, overpriced popcorn while some teenagers in upper back row provide braindead commentary and inside jokes with their other friends while theater management simply does nothing. Why are online relationships so much less "socia
And The Other Half KNOW (Score:2)
Anti-introversion bias (Score:3)
If you would prefer doing things alone by yourself instead of with other people, the vast majority of whom are shitty and not worthy of your time, there's something wrong with you! /sarcasm
Can't trust their opiniongs (Score:3)
After all, they probably just read on their cellphones that they were addicted, so they parroted it back ;D
But to be honest, real addicts DENY that they are addicts. One of the core principles of the 12 steps is to admit your addiction. Same thing for most of the other non-12 step programs.
Real addicts don't admit they have a problem.
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Yeah ... but the next 2 steps in the 12 are believe in god, and trust him kick your habit for you.
So, you know, grain of salt and all that.
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real tough to keep them off of those things
Stop paying the bill.
You mean... (Score:2)
...half of teens don't know what "addicted" means.
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If you look at the comments and hype in the gaming sections of the App stores, you'll discover that 'addicting' has been adopted as a praiseworthy thing.
"The Most Addicting Game in the App Store" is often part of the hype-description for a game.
And in the User comments, people say things like 'This game is sooo addicting.'
The word has changed, and something being 'addicting' isn't seen as so bad.
Digital detox expert? (Score:1)
"Digital detox expert" cracked me up. I'm a Psychologist by education, and as far as I know, "digital detox expert" is not legit. I strongly doubt it is addiction in the same way we mean when we say, "Bob is addicted to opiates". Do teens go through physical withdrawal symptoms when smart phone use ceases? I mean, aside from being angsty and pissy (normal teen behavior).
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Obviou
What's the difference? (Score:2)
I'm not sure that there is much of a difference between going out to eat burgers with friends, or playing a game online with friends. They're both social events...
Yeah, okay. (Score:2)
They'll be fine.
Very outdated mindset (Score:4, Insightful)
To an out of touch parent it may appear your child is gaming alone. In reality they likely have a chat and/or voice connection to their friends and are playing a game together through the net. This is no less social or camaraderie than sitting in a room playing a board or video game together but parents would see one as social interaction and the other as isolation.
Wrong crowd? (Score:1)
In other news... (Score:2)
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That's the Austrian branch. *nods*