Are We Socially Ready For Wearable Computing? 214
An anonymous reader writes "Smart watches have arrived, and Google Glass is on its way. As early-adopters start to gain some experience with these devices, they're learning some interesting lessons about how wearable computing affects our behavior differently from even smartphones and tablets. Vint Cerf says, 'Our social conventions have not kept up with the technology.' Right now, it's considered impolite to talk on your cellphone while checking out at the grocery store, or to ignore a face-to-face conversation in favor of texting somebody. But 20 years ago, those actions weren't even on our social radar. Wearable devices create some obvious social problems, like the aversion to Glass's ever-present camera. But there are subtler ones, as well, for which we'll need to develop another set of social norms. A Pebble smart watch user gave an example: 'People thought I was being rude and checking the time constantly when I was really monitoring incoming messages. It sent the wrong signal.' The article continues, 'Therein lies the wearables conundrum. You can put a phone away and choose not to use it. You can turn to it with permission if you're so inclined. Wearables provide no opportunity for pause, as their interruptions tend to be fairly continuous, and the interaction is more physical (an averted glance or a vibration directly on your arm). It's nearly impossible to train yourself to avoid the reflex-like response of interacting. By comparison, a cell phone is away (in your pocket, on a table) and has to be reached for.'"
For me, it's all about invisibility... (Score:3)
If you can't tell that I'm reading email, or surfing the web while interacting with others, that's a good thing. I don't want things intruding into my presence unless I ask for them though.
Re:For me, it's all about invisibility... (Score:5, Insightful)
So lemme see if I get this: you want to be able to send and receive text messages while interacting with others, but you don't want them to know you're doing it so they won't think you're some sort of a-hole? And you think that the person you're interacting with won't notice you staring at your watch? And you think they won't notice that it's big, clunky, and has text displayed on it, sort like, oh, I don't know, a phone?
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Oh, they know he's a a-hole.
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personally, what I want is the Social Analyzer like in Deus Ex. That was the most useful, though exploitative augmentation, in the whole game. Imagine a thermal polygraph, pupil response tracker, and directional microphone for detecting subtle changes in the body caused by subconsious reaction. Now include the ability to build a psych profile based off of a person's social networking data and Current behavior modeling. For the third element, include data from all previous interactions that you have had
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Go check out Vinge's "Rainbows End"
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He just needs to come out of the asshole closet like the people in the Facebook commercials. No point being a closet asshole.
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If you can't tell that I'm reading email, or surfing the web while interacting with others, that's a good thing. I don't want things intruding into my presence unless I ask for them though.
Big Brother, in your pocket, in your mind, in the pocket of your mind.
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If you can't tell that I'm reading email, or surfing the web while interacting with others, that's a good thing. I don't want things intruding into my presence unless I ask for them though.
I realize that no technology is going to be flawless, but I can see some ways that our toys can be a little more considerate with the aid of a rule-based system.
First, I'd posit the definition of categories of importance: in-laws, boss, spouse, friends, pop-up reminders, emergency community services, and so forth.
Then I'd add another dimension: urgency. "I'm bored, amuse me", "By the way/FYI", "Don't forget the milk", "got no time for that", "Impending metor strike", etc.
Add in location: nowhere special, a
Duh! (Score:5, Insightful)
A Pebble smart watch user gave an example: 'People thought I was being rude and checking the time constantly when I was really monitoring incoming messages. It sent the wrong signal.'
I've got news for you. You're not sending a good signal when you check your phone for text messages during a conversation either. In either case you're indirectly but very clearly saying to the person standing in front of you that anything, including the time of day, a text message, or a facebook update is more important/interesting than what you are saying to me right now.
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Ah yes but he was sending the wrong rude message, it was "I'm so bored listening to you it seems time is standing still and I keep checking my watch praying this will soon be over" instead of the "I'm far too busy and important to devote all my attention and energy to interacting with you, so I'll casually show it by doing other things at the same time" rude.
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Except, of course, the point of the activity was not to send a message, it was to check if he had received any. The social message of rejection was an
Re:Duh! (Score:4, Insightful)
I guess Im being rude now by asking a reasonable question.
No, you're being rude by wasting people's time by pretending to ask a reasonable question while actually just being a sanctimonious ass.
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Is it rude when you actually do have things going on that really are more important than some small-talk the person in front of you keeps making? Should I prioritize the guy's views of a football team over an e-mail from my wife concerning our family? Should my boss be less important than the guy in front of me and his views of football and gadgets?
Yes, yes and yes.
If you don't want to talk with someone, break off the conversation with them. Do not engage in other activities whilst you are talking to them.
Saying the words "Excuse me, please, I need to check this" is apparently an epic, impossible feat that only the greatest of men can accomplish.
Re:Duh! (Score:5, Insightful)
Should I prioritize the guy's views of a football team over an e-mail from my wife concerning our family?
If your wife is sending you urgent e-mails about your family that you need to deal with right now and not in ten minutes, maybe that's the problem? If it's urgent you call. Twice if need be, to let you know voice mail is not quick enough. If your excuse for checking your email every time a message pops in is that it might possibly be urgent, it's a bloody poor one. Not to mention you'll probably spend most of your life checking email, but that's not anyone else's problem.
Re:Duh! (Score:4, Informative)
Here is my system for not being rude in today's "Tech-enhanced society":
I'll stick my phone in my pocket when I'm speaking with someone. It stays there, untouched, with the following exceptions:
1. Phone rings - I reach down in my pocket without breaking the conversation and tap a button to silence the call. Often I include "Excuse me." while I perform the action. I can check the call number later.
2. Phone rings again almost immediately - I tell the person, "It seems like someone really needs to get ahold of me. Please excuse me for a moment."
Pretty much anything else I'll leave to a 'Bathroom Break'.
Seems to be a courteous approach to me.
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Yes. You are being rude by pretending to listen to the person about football. If you're not interested, break it off and go elsewhere. If you can't easily break it off, then checking your messages from your boss is just a cop out.
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well it is rude to give bad lip/listen service to someone. if you'd rather be reading txt messages, just walk away and check them on the pc?
but has vint cerf really degraded into writing whatifweshouldorshouldweorcanwe shit? so yeah if you got someone giving you a lecture about wearable computing the appropriate response is probably to do something better with your time.
by the way if someone had somewhere to be and was checking the time that's probably a lot less rude than reading meaningless messages or ch
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You're not sending a good signal when you check your phone for text messages during a conversation either.
That depends on the signal he is trying to send. I have found that if I check my phone frequently when someone is talking to me, then that person is likely to bother me less in the future.
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I am surprised you have a problem with people bothering you at all! I would think that most would strive to avoid you.
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It is rude. As you can see from the responses from those who think it's OK - they're so full of "I'm more important than you hence you'll have to do with what I have leftover" or similar[1].
If you are having a conversation with someone, it is rude to not pay attention. Maybe if you are a virtuoso multi-tasker you can do it succes
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Nobody like that exists. There is just a number of aholes who think they are a "virtuoso multi-tasker".
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The stuff I am doing is not necessarily unimportant!
It may be important to you but it's not to the person you're talking to. It took me a while to realize this, but this whole "I'm a nerd" thing is just an excuse to behave like a spoiled inconsiderate brat.
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You sound very convinced of your own importance. Which is a polite way of saying that you sound like a pompous ass. Maybe you are one, I don't know.
we've had wearable communication devices for years (Score:5, Insightful)
they're called pagers. I know now one but drug dealers and doctors wear them anymore, but they do exist.
I wear a pager for work and frequently have to wear it when out in public. I can turn the alert from audible to vibrate when I am in public. Most relevant to the issue at hand, it took me 1-2 years after I got my first pager to train myself to not automatically look at the pager as soon as a message/phone number came in.
In short, you CAN train yourself to not look instantly once you get it through your head that you are not expecting an urgent/emergency alert.
Similarly, hospitals are environments where, because of the ubiquity of wearable communication devices (ie pagers) it has become socially acceptable to read incoming messages almost anytime.
My conclusion is that these two forces will apply outside of the hospital/drug deal: people will learn to resist looking instantly at their watch or other wearable device unless they really are expecting something urgent and bystanders (many of whom will have wearables of their own) will grow to accept more frequent checking of such devices in the correct context.
Re:we've had wearable communication devices for ye (Score:5, Informative)
I wear a pager for work (hospital environment). When there, everyone knows exactly why I'm checking it immediately if it goes off. When there or elsewhere, I apologize for checking it by saying, "Sorry, I'm on call. I need to check this." Usually they ask if I need to take it. If I don't, I tell them someone else will get it (we blast to the entire group). If I do, I tell them I'll get it when we're finished. Yes, the stuff I work on is that time critical. 5 minutes can be, and has been, the difference between getting the parts I need that day and getting them back up, or them being down an extra day. I think the key is to tell your audience what's going on instead of just tuning them out.
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Sometimes the "angry commuter horn" means you're drifting into their lane and half a second from side-swiping them... ignoring it is a bad idea in that case.
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Sometimes the "angry commuter horn" means you're drifting into their lane and half a second from side-swiping them... ignoring it is a bad idea in that case.
Once my "angry commuter horn" meant "I'm hauling a load of cinderblocks, it's 10 degrees, and some psycho sprayed water on a steep downhill slope heading to an intersection"
Trust me, that wasn't a horn you wanted to tune out.
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Hospitals still use pagers for one simple reason. They are 1000x more reliable than a text message. Pager system coverage areas are far larger and more saturated with signals than cell systems which are full of holes in coverage. The signaling scheme used in paging systems is more reliable and the frequencies used penetrate buildings better than cell signals.
If it gets common we will adapt (Score:5, Insightful)
I remember someone telling me once, he was one of the very first people who got a earplug/microphone for his cell phone and even cell phones were fairly rare. So he was apparently talking straight into thin air to someone who wasn't there, holding a conversation with them. Unless they spotted the earpiece and realized what it was, people thought he was certifiably insane. Today nobody would blink twice at that.
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Today nobody would blink twice at that.
Blink: No.
Feel the urge to repeatedly punch them in the face? Yes.
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What is it with Slashdot, new technology and psychotic violent outbursts?
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It's not the (old) technology, it's the people using it, why and how they're using it.
I did the whole earpiece+mic communication thing in 2003, but quickly decided that unless there was a really good reason for it, it was just terribly annoying to everybody around me. Holding a device up to your ear is a (reasonably) clear social signal that you're talking to somebody on your phone. Unless the technology or people using it support a different equivalent social signal, it will always cause confusion. Instanc
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neural computing (Score:2)
Form Factor (Score:5, Interesting)
I think it's all about the form factor, and Google has gotten it wrong with Google Glass. IMO, the best possible form factor for wearable computing is that of a wrist watch. Even in that regard, companies like Samsung have still gotten it wrong, and for the exact opposite reason that Google has gone wrong.
Glasses are essentially a display device. They should be an I/O type peripheral, but Google made them the heart of the system. They can't be anything but glasses, on your face, obvious to everyone, with a camera sitting there pointing at everyone, drawing suspicion about what is being recorded or what you might be seeing, etc. They should not be the core of the system, but a peripheral to be used only when needed for those specific functions.
Now take Samsung's watch. It SHOULD be the core of the system. It should have your CPU, storage, networking, etc, because it is a non-invasive device that billions of people are already used to wearing all day every day. It is the optimum form factor for having with you all the time everywhere you go (even while swimming, etc). But instead they made it a mere peripheral for their phones / tablets.
The watch should be the core of the system. You can do simple tasks with its small display, it can vibrate in different places (on the bottom of the band, in the watch, etc) in different patterns that could communicate a variety of things without any annoying sound effects (since it's on the wrist the vibration could be very light, unlike a cell phone which has to be felt through clothing, etc). Then if you need a bigger display, you grab a tablet IO device (a mere wireless peripheral for IO for your watch), or a device like Google Glass, or you simply output media from your watch to the nearest TV, etc.
Anyway, IMO I think everyone is getting it totally backwards when it comes to wearable computing devices.
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Re:Form Factor (Score:4, Interesting)
Not a bad analysis, but I think it misses something. Right now, the watch phones have too poor a battery life to have significant processing power. The watch might make a decent display, but that's about all it can do with any quality. So it's in the same realm as the glasses.
We're going to need person-area networks. Put a big battery and a powerful computer system in your pocket, have it connect to the watch and glasses for user I/O. Problem is, at that point you may as well slap a screen on the computer part, and then you've got a full smartphone, which reduces the necessity of the other two.
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Well, if a large Futurama-style device [stackexchange.com] is acceptable then you can just strap a smartphone to your arm right now...
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Call me old fashioned, but I think I'll look fondly on the days when I could get a scratch on my watchband and not have my hand burst into flames as the battery fails.
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The smart watch is never ever taking off.
It requires two hands to use (one supports the watch, the other hand to operate it's buttons).
A smartphone requires one hand - that can both support the device and operate it.
I really don't understand what is so hard about this limitation for people to understand.
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Now take Samsung's watch. It SHOULD be the core of the system. It should have your CPU, storage, networking, etc, because it is a non-invasive device that billions of people are already used to wearing all day every day. It is the optimum form factor for having with you all the time everywhere you go (even while swimming, etc). But instead they made it a mere peripheral for their phones / tablets.
The watch should be the core of the system. You can do simple tasks with its small display, it can vibrate in different places (on the bottom of the band, in the watch, etc) in different patterns that could communicate a variety of things without any annoying sound effects (since it's on the wrist the vibration could be very light, unlike a cell phone which has to be felt through clothing, etc). Then if you need a bigger display, you grab a tablet IO device (a mere wireless peripheral for IO for your watch), or a device like Google Glass, or you simply output media from your watch to the nearest TV, etc
And here is where we disagree. The watch should be a peripheral due to several unavoidable drawbacks:
1. Heat - Have you ever felt how hot a phone can get when it's operating? It would get very uncomfortable to have that heat strapped on your wrist. I'd hate to start sweating because my cellWatch was doing some processing.
2. Batteries - All those extra features means power, and to get a usable life you need batteries. And putting those batteries on your arm is not going to be confortable or small.
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Google Glass doesn't do that kind of augmented reality. For that, you'd need a display that encompasses your entire field of view at the minimum, plus it's difficult to keep the augmented elements properly registered with the actual scene with a transparent display. (I.e., if you want to draw a circle around a person's head, the circle is going to lag their movement due to processing time unless you make your headgear opaque and re-display the whole sc
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Re:Too fragile for the wrist. (Score:4, Insightful)
Lots of people have expensive watches (some of them very expensive) and most of them seem to have no problem keeping them intact. (However, in your case, maybe a watch is not a good idea.)
A wrist watch is much more convenient than digging into your pocket to check the time, messages, etc. So just as wrist watches superseded pocket watches, smart watches will supersede pocket phones.
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Some people do still wear watches - but I stopped wearing one shortly after I purchased my first cell phone.
If I had to dress better for work than my usual cargo pants plus casual shirt, though, I might still wear a watch occasionally - but it would be a "style" thing, since there's no real utility in wearing one nowadays.
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The utility of a smart watch is that has the functionality of your smart phone (without the pocket bulge... or do you like to "augment" your bulge with your phone?).
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Nope (Score:2)
The fundamental problem (Score:2)
The fundamental problem with all wearable computing and cell phones is that they are an interruptive technology. While they do queue up SMS messages and emails so you can deal with them when convenient, people don't do so. Instead they rudely proceed to stop whatever they're doing, even a conversation, to deal with the message right now.
There is no excuse for it other than being rude.
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Smartphones are fundamentally interruptive, yes (they're designed to be a communications technology, after all!). Wearable computers, on the other hand, are designed to work more like "virtual secretaries:" to automatically figure out what you're doing and help you do it.
For example, if you're having a face-to-face conversation with somebody, your wearable should most emphatically not be facilitating a text message or something; instead, it should be using the (automatically detected) fact that you're conve
Who would want it? (Score:5, Insightful)
There are scientists and engineers pushing this idea of wearable computing because it seems cool. What we need isn't the opinion of scientists and engineers, we need to focus on philosophy. Adjust society for computer? Bah, what a load of hogwash. Adjust computing for society! Stop thinking like a computer engineer and start thinking like a human being
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With the original computer revolution, being a nerd suddenly became sort of cool. Now that geeks are attempting to drive the way society is heading with these sorts of things, though, I wonder how long it will be before society as a whole says "oh, yeah, THIS is why we relegated these guys to the back room of the library way back then..."
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We're continuously adjusting society for various technological changes. At some point, there would have been social adjustment for whether it was polite to have a record on in the background while having guests, or answering the landline telephone during a conversation, or having the TV on in the background when eating dinner.
This is no different. Social norms need to be developed to match new developments in technology.
There is a valid discussion to be had about the social impacts of being continuously con
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Yes, join the collective. Look at me now: http://zimage.com/~ant/antfarm/about/pictures/BorgAnt.jpg [zimage.com] ... ;)
Just like every cyberpunk setting (Score:2)
Google Glass - Most Important Function (Score:5, Funny)
"If somebody dares to wear Google Glasses without my permission I will shoot them in the face
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Apparently the most important function of Google Glass is to summon "Internet Tough Guys" to post on Slashdot.
And then there are smartass cock-gobblers like you who are obviously in
search of a good beating which is obviously overdue.
Brilliant. Even just mentioning the topic works!
Article asks a stupid question (Score:4, Insightful)
We're never socially ready for ANYTHING new. The process of building social norms around something can't start until after that thing is introduced. The implication, then (often made explicit by hand-wringers calling themselves "ethicists" or some such thing) that we should stop the thing until we ARE "socially ready" for is equivalent to pure conservativism -- stopping everything new.
Priorities: Do you really need to read that now? (Score:3)
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The problem is not that a wearable allows you to be "connected," but rather that using it as an interface for "connection" misses the point. The point of wearable computing is context.
If, for example, the email is telling you that your order is waiting at the post office, your wearable should tell you that as you're about to travel past it.
Your wearable sh
No different twenty years ago (Score:3)
"Right now, it's considered impolite to talk on your cellphone while checking out at the grocery store, or to ignore a face-to-face conversation in favor of texting somebody. But 20 years ago, those actions weren't even on our social radar."
Sure they were. Twenty years ago, if you were in line at the grocery store and rather than paying attention to checking out, you were idly standing there chatting with the person next to you, that would be just as rude as talking on your cell phone. And if you were having a face-to-face conversation with someone and abruptly stopped to turn and interact with someone else, that would be considered just as rude as abruptly stopping to text.
The rude behavior is the same then and now. Distraction, interruption, inattentiveness, and so on. All that's changed is that the technology has allowed the other person in the scenario to become a virtual presence than an actual.
Will we ever truly be ready? (Score:4, Interesting)
Seriously, though. My fellow workers and I refer to most folks walking by, obliviously texting away as "Pod-People". Many of them with ear buds (or even huge, bulky headphones) to emphasize their wanting not to hear you. People aren't truly in tune with proper social behavior with cell phones/smart phones and constant (albeit intermittent) communications now. If a device (any device) makes it even more of an attention hog than it has already become, then people are going to start walking into traffic (even more than they already do). Many people today are already texting people they are physically standing beside as a method of "whispering" things clandestinely, no matter how rude it really is. People are already getting fully absorbed in their smart phones to the point of not knowing how to hold a coherent conversation over a meal. All this will simply be compounded with the more pervasive devices. It's only a matter of time before Google Glass becomes outright illegal to use while driving. It's bad enough that people think that having their smart phone in their lap while driving is acceptable and considered safe, despite being illegal in many places. What is it going to take before people start taking serious offense at others' smart device use in public places? Not serving people while they are on their phone is a decent start. After all, how rude is it to be expecting someone else to give you proper attention to serve you, and you can't even be bothered to pay enough attention to get the amount of you bill right? Little wonder why many employers have effectively banned smart phone use while at work, particularly in the service and hospitality industry. How far will it go? Extremism exists, and will manifest itself on both sides of this topic. Mark my works: It Will Get Ugly!
BS.. (Score:2)
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The fundamental issue is that the idea of "putting away" a wearable defeats its purpose, which is to augment your perceptions and memory. In a meeting, for example, your wearable is not supposed to be distracting you with other communications, it's supposed to be automatically recording the meeting minutes and cross-referencing topics for you! (In fact, your wearable ought to be able to figure out that you're in a meeting based on your calendar and/or GPS and/or recognizing the fact that you're talking to s
So what about those that do need them? (Score:2)
Consider the tourist who doesn't speak your language, and is getting on the fly translation of street signs, etc.
Or the dyslexic who is getting the menu he's never been able to cope with before read to him.
Or the blind guy who's using it like a seeing eye dog he doesn't need to feed?
Are you going to punch all of them in the face too?
Just because you're being a glassless-hole, doesn't mean they're interested in recording you.
I've considered getting a pair, but haven't - because they're ugly as hell. As anoth
self correcting ... (Score:2)
It'll go the way of the bluetooth headset ... extinct except for the hardcore douchebag.
"Excuse me sir, you seem to have a little bit of douchebag on the side of your... oh nevermind, that's your bluetooth..."
Mu (Score:5, Insightful)
frankly, I think this is a meaningless question. What does "Socially ready" even mean? Society does not "prepare" for change. Change happens and then society adapts. Or more accurately, change happens, some people adapt, and children grow up knowing a new society that never didn't have that change and can't conceive of a world that didn't have it.... then they grow up to ask whether society is ready for the next change, which their children will grow up familiar with, and who will think their parents were silly, crazy, and overly paranoid for doubting.
Re: The wrong signal? (Score:2)
The people that are sending the messages aren't people? Maybe I find it rude that people think just because they happen to be in my personal space, that they automatically deserve my undivided attention?
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Then maybe you should explain that to those people and they'll make sure they're not in your personal space. Problem solved!
Re: The wrong signal? (Score:5, Insightful)
Don't worry- the problem will solve itself. Keep checking your phone/smart watch for messages while conversing with others and before long you won't have to put up with people in "your personal space" any more.
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In the words of that reknowned poet and epigrammist, Grumpycat: GOOD.
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Your continued presence implies that that they do deserve your undivided attention. If you don't wish for this to be the case then you should excuse yourself and leave.
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conversely you are in their personal space too. Pretty much if you are in the same space and if you are not strangers then ignoring them is pretty damn rude. you can always excuse yourself and then give your device your attention. Anything less is being pretty dickish however if you are in the company of someone similar to yourself then it may be acceptable. You must realise that a large majority of people would find your behaviour offensive.
To be fair smart phones are pretty good at queueing up notificat
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That is one thing that really gets under my skin -- when I am visiting with someone (i.e., I took the effort to go over to their space, whether it is a co-worker's office, or visiting with family), and their phone rings. No matter what we're in the middle of talking about, that phone call always gets priority.
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That is one thing that really gets under my skin -- when I am visiting with someone (i.e., I took the effort to go over to their space, whether it is a co-worker's office, or visiting with family), and their phone rings. No matter what we're in the middle of talking about, that phone call always gets priority.
I had this sort of issue with one particular boss. He would constantly place our conversations "on hold" so that he could take a phone call. He got the point though when I left his office during one such interruption and called him on the phone so that we could continue the conversation.
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That is one thing that really gets under my skin -- when I am visiting with someone (i.e., I took the effort to go over to their space, whether it is a co-worker's office, or visiting with family), and their phone rings. No matter what we're in the middle of talking about, that phone call always gets priority.
I had this sort of issue with one particular boss. He would constantly place our conversations "on hold" so that he could take a phone call. He got the point though when I left his office during one such interruption and called him on the phone so that we could continue the conversation.
You realize of course that just because you go into someone's space, you don't automatically get priority? It's equally as invasive as a phonecall, arguably more so.
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The people that are sending the messages aren't people? Maybe I find it rude that people think just because they happen to be in my personal space, that they automatically deserve my undivided attention?
One is synchronous face-to-face interaction while the other is asynchronous. A text message doesn't go away. you can deal with it later. And even if you get a phone call you still should politely ask "Do you mind if I take this?". You can always call back.
Of course the originators of the remote non-face-to-face messages are people, too. But they are not there. If your constant distraction forces you to check your devices then you are sending the wrong messages. Your body language tells the person next to
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Then why are they in your personal space? I assume we are not talking about strangers on a train here, but people with whom you have met in person in order to interact with them.
If you really are Strangers on a Train, and you're constantly checking your monitoring devices... the other guy is probably going to think you're a cop.
Re:The wrong signal? (Score:4, Interesting)
Some people won't stop, it's as though it's wired into their brains and everything else is second if not third.
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Re:People thought I was being rude (Score:5, Funny)
You check your watch for incoming messages. You look at your phone to check the time.
So, it has come to this.
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That's all part of the development of social norms. The reason that signs such as 'we will not serve you while you are using your mobile phone' exist is because a set of norms are not universally accepted. Someone, at some point, decided that the norm they wanted in the store was one of not using your phone while interacting with the staff. By expressing your preferences and expectations, you are contributing to the formation of those standards of social behaviour.
That may have been because it took longer t
Re:Google Glass should be outlawed. (Score:4, Insightful)
I love the way you go from literally punching your houseguests in the face to complaining about people who lack social skills.
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I for one have no problem with you augmenting your eyes, ears and memory. I do have a bit of a problem with Google sharing your augmentations.
Honestly, I would have no problem with a wearable, even always-on camera. It's the Google's panopticon bit I have reservations with.
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If it is a public place that I spend money, I will be polite and ask, "Please put that camera away.", if they refuse, I will go straight to the business owner, tell that that I am leaving and will no longer spend my money in their establishment as long as they allow those things, and leave.
Of course it's probably not a choice of losing your business or losing no business. If those people don't want to put their Google Glass away and will find some other place to eat lunch next time, that's money lost too. By all means vote with your wallet, but if this becomes another fad in our increasingly more always-online society I doubt your pockets are deep enough. It's not obviously disruptive to other people so I think general apathy will win. Yeah, there's a bunch of people there with Google Glass a
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if they argue the point, they get my fist right into their google glasses and then they will be thrown ( literately ) out my door
Is it any wonder that people want to record all the time when there are people who jump directly to extreme violence because someone disagrees with them?
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They are already 'outlawed' in pretty much the whole of Europe under existing laws, in the sense that you have the right to demand from a private person who films you to stop doing that, have a right to obtain the originals and a right to get all copies destroyed. These rights are rarely asserted in daily life nowadays, like when someone films people with his mobile phone. But regarding Google glasses, who are much more sneaky and evil in their typical use cases (such as filming women and biometrically iden
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Shamelessly stolen from, http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Jurassic_Park_(film) [wikiquote.org]
"Your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should"
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Both you and the AC above are wrong. The AC is wrong because his definition disagrees with every dictionary out there. Yours is wrong because you're not looking deeply enough. You say "No, they're pathetic. There shouldn't be a single point of failure for anything in one's life." How about your food? Without tractors, combines, and other advancements in the last century there wouldn't be enough food for everyone.
Write a letter? Do you know how to make paper?
Ride a bike or take a bus? Those are both machines